I take it that veganism's going ok at the moment?

yus it is v good :)
am enjoying it a great deal and suspect I am eating better than I think I have in years
bit of a crisis re the mother thing tho...what do you think?

You've lost me - a crisis re parenthood, or a crisis with your parents? Being a vegan parent is actually pretty easy - we have three vegan kids (aged 5, 3 and 3 days) and have had no problems whatsoever.

lol oh yes i think it's friended.
do i eat nut cutlets my mum buys me when i visit that have a teeny amount of whey powder in so to avoid causing her mega stress or not?

I've been through this with friend and relatives - I think it's best to let them know nice and early what your principles are to avoid years of problems. Bring alternatives, provide options - make it easy for her.

that Tshirt is very cool

(do they do one that says "At least I feel guilty"? (veganism not happening at the moment but I'm still looking towards no more cow-milk))

Is it wrong that I looked at the slogan and imagined it being chanted by cheerleaders?